"The same way I handle everything. With as much dignity as I can muster. I've tried to make the whole ship a sanctuary for me, and refused to leave for the vast majority of excursions. Twice, twice I've made it off the ship. Only once I'd truly say it was my choice, and that time one of my husbands was brutally murdered. I was left alone with his body. It did not help me want to get off the ship ever again."