"I'm certain I can't imagine what all that has meant for you, but here...you will fit right in, and I can't think of many people who'd even give you a second glance for de-fingering someone who tried something like that. I heard two of the teenagers on the ship got into a duel because one splashed the other."

That's a slight mistelling of the story, but the gossip mill only works so well.

"Another thing of note here is that death is not an escape from this experience. Anyone who dies, the faceless dame collects their body and they wake up in bed the next morning. It's spooky, but it's definitely a thing going on here. To prolong the torment, I suppose." Not passing that piece of information along would be leading her only partly armed for whatever's to come.